Families often feel fear, anger, guilt and exhaustion. A planned conversation can reduce escalation and focus attention on specific concerns.
Prepare a constructive conversation
Choose a calm moment, describe observable facts, avoid humiliating labels and state clearly what help you are prepared to offer.
- Use specific examples
- Listen without approving unsafe behavior
- Set boundaries you can maintain
- Avoid arguing during intoxication
- Seek professional guidance for safety concerns
Protect urgent safety
Loss of consciousness, breathing difficulty, seizures, violence or risk of self-harm require immediate emergency care. Call 911.
Frequently asked questions
Should I force the person to promise they will stop?
Promises made under pressure may not address risk. Focus on a concrete assessment and a realistic next step.
Can I attend orientation alone?
Yes. Family orientation can help you prepare a safer, clearer approach.